Aries and Virgo can appear a complete opposites: Aries is impetuous, dominant and belligerent, always hopping onto new ideas and impatient while Virgo is detail-oriented, quiet, shy, and works patiently toward long-term goals. This relationship builds with time as each partner must learn to understand the other and their background. Aries’s energy is impulsive while Virgo’s is much leisurelier and more ingrained.
Early in the relationship, Aries and Virgo may see nothing but one another’s faults. However, Aries teaches Virgo about fun, excitement, and spontaneity. Virgo teaches Aries patience and attention to detail. Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Virgo is ruled by the Planet Mercury. Aries is a Fire Sign and Virgo is an Earth Sign. Virgo weighs all the options before devoting any serious effort, while Aries simply sees what they want and dives in!
The best aspect of the Aries-Virgo relationship is their great effectiveness as a team – business or personal. Also, despite of so many differences, their personalities are highly complementary.
Aries Man and Virgo Woman
The warrior qualities of an Aries Man never lets him stay passively and he goes after what others tell him he will never have, in a manner that they promise him he will never be allowed to do it. He follows through on his intent with action, more out of a desire and satisfaction in proving his adversaries wrong rather than what genuine interest there may be for achieving the target in question. He usually has a fleeting passion in any of his romantic encounters but the pleasing personality, sparkle that surrounds the social circles and the respect of peers in a Virgo woman’s life builds the interest in him to approach her.
His heart gravitates on outside factors as a paperweight since, internally, his passion boils over at the flip of a coin and he has been proven wrong in trusting himself before. A successful conquest of Virgo holds all the social approval and gravitas he secretly desires, whilst she knows he is a man of action who can deliver on anything she would like in her possession. He can come back to her bearing gifts, often to make up for their disagreements, and a man like Aries finds no problem in earning society’s acceptance and admiration. This sits well with Virgo who is happy to be the silent hand and guiding partner.
Even if Virgo Woman successfully pioneers a few much-needed changes in Aries’ errant ways, she won’t feel like she had a major hand in them because Virgo is too busy counting all the time invested in bringing him onto the same page. Even one minor detail of difference can take years to iron out between them, and Virgo often discovers the only tactic to instigate change is the threat of leaving him. This is a union of opposites, rationale vs impulse and passion vs logic.
Aries Woman and Virgo Man
The attraction between the Virgo man and the Aries woman isn’t particularly obvious. The Aries woman is strong, powerful and very dominant – quite a loud and in your face personality, often. The Virgo man, on the other hand, is typically quiet, modest and a little shy socially speaking. He may be intimidated by the Aries woman to begin with, but she is likely to be attracted to his enigmatic aura. For the Aries woman, her interest in the Virgo man may start off as a kind of quest or conquest, to see if she can “win” him, and she is likely to take the lead in the early stage of the relationship – but if these two do get together, their strange attraction will quickly turn to something more.
Because the Virgo man is able to soften the Aries woman’s temper, this romance can be a surprisingly tender one. It’s a fire and earth combination, which doesn’t always work terribly well, but here it stands more chance than most. The Virgo man is free from ego, and doesn’t mind it looking as if the Aries woman is taking the lead in their lives, because he knows that he is the power behind many of the decisions she makes. Don’t forget that Virgo is a mutable sign, so if the Virgo guy is head over heels with his Aries woman, he’s smart and savvy enough to adapt to her fiery ways.