Don't Quit, Live On !!!
When things go wrong as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh.
When care is pressing you down a bit.
Rest, if you must, but don't you quit
Life is queer with its twists and turns
As every one of us sometimes learns.
And many a failure turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out:
Don't give up though the pace seems slow -
You may succeed with another blow.
Success is failure turned inside out -
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt.
And you never can tell how close you are/
It may be near when it seems so far:
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.
(The author of this poem is unknown, yet we pay homage to whoever has expressed
the feelings so well!)
They need Sympathy?
To be honest, it is easier said than done. We must have sympathy with all those who ever have contemplated or attempted suicide. The natural will to live is so strongly ingrained in each one of us that only extremely bad situations can make one think about ending one?s life. Although in most cases the drastic decision is momentary and if one gets sympathetic help just in time then the person most probably averts such decision and lives on.
How serious is the Problem?
It is wide spread and very serious indeed. In USA the most rich and advanced country, thousands of teenagers commit suicide every year. In India an estimated 100,000 people die of suicide each year and the figure is about 10% of suicides committed throughout the world every year.
How parents can help?
Parents can help a lot, firstly by giving plenty of time and attention to their growing up children. They should try to judge any sudden change in their children?s behaviour and take timely action. Apart from other causes a child being bullied by senior students is a growing problem even in prestigious schools. This causes tremendous pressure on the suffering child. In most cases the schools fail to take timely action even after parents of suffering children report such a case.
The Purpose of Life?
It is absolutely essential that we understand the true purpose of life. A soul incarnates in a physical body in order to gain some specific experiences. The Soul is an intangible entity like a brain and needs a body to exist on any physical or material plane of existence in order to gain experiences.
So a suitable body as per the tasks to be performed is selected and at the appropriate time the Soul enters the newly formed body while it is in the womb. The body is just a puppet and the Soul is its driver or controller.
Existence in a physical body is for some limited period of time decided beforehand in the astral world. At the death of the physical body the entity occupying that body leaves and goes back to the astral world. This is the same as a person gone away from home for studies returns with knowledge gained and plans the life ahead.
The ever-existing entity; your real self (Soul)-vacates this body after its death and goes to the astral realms of another dimension, which is a step higher than this third dimension in which we are at present.
There in the astral the next incarnation is decided and planed. There is a period of varying length during which an entity stays there in the astral before reincarnating on this Earth or any of the infinite number of places in our own or other universes. But a suicide case gets a different treatment altogether.
Natural Death and Suicide?
There seems to be lot of misconception among us about natural and unnatural death. If someone dies at a young age then people say it is untimely or unnatural death. And they assume that timely death is only when a person dies after enjoying a long life span of 60, 70 or more years.
Well, let us be clear that there are only two ways in which life of a human being may end, one is natural or timely death and another is Suicide. There is no other way. Suicide is unnatural or untimely death and it is a sudden decision of an individual and not pre-planned before incarnation of that entity.
There is no Escape ?
You cannot escape from a pre-planned life of certain period. In your desperate attempt to escape a hard situation in life you land up in greater trouble. In case you commit suicide, for whatever reason, then you have to forcibly come down in even worse conditions than before in order to live the balance life span from that previous life, which could be anything from certain number of seconds to minutes, hours, days, months or years.
A new born may die soon after birth or at any young age, then that is for sure a case of an entity reincarnating to live the balance period remaining from its previous incarnation, in which that person committed suicide a certain period of time prior to his or her natural death.
Hardships and Sorrows have a purpose ?
Everybody wants an easy life full of comforts and free from sorrows and hardships. Well, we should strive to make life easy and comfortable, but also never forget that life has a greater meaning and all the comforts, facilities and material provisions are only the means but not the sole aim of life.
Eternally the aim of life is to learn and evolve. The learning which enables us to earn money, have material possessions and luxuries etc. is limited only to our current physical existence of certain finite number of years. It is a hard fact that all true learning which evolves us from self-cantered beings to self-realised divine beings comes through hard lesson learned through hardships, scarcity and sorrows. It is a sad fact though that humans don?t learn from experiences of others rather by own hard lessons of life. Our finite life span of at the most 80, 90 or around 100 years or so is just an eye-blink in the eternal time in which our real-self exists.
How Astrology Can Help?
Parents can get the birth charts of their children analysed by expert astrologers at birth or soon after that. It is a duty of a good astrologer to avoid terrorising parents and make them worried regarding some negative indications in a chart. Parents should also realise that all indications in a birth chart are only probabilities. A lot of bad indications may never happen at all or could be averted with timely care and remedies. Parents need not disclose all findings with the concerned child rather very thoughtfully, after taking into consideration the astrologer?s advice guide or counsel the child in a positive way.Avoid taking your child or young one with you when you visit an astrologer for advice. You must search a well-qualified or trained and rational astrologer and never ever consult roadside fortune-tellers or ?Tantric Babaas? who may claim solution to any of your problem within so many hours or days. Some are claiming to give guarantee card as well. So use your common sense and save your money and possible load of fresh troubles.
By knowing beforehand the difficult periods indicated in life one can better equip oneself or one?s child to tackle things during that period. The most important thing is that all astrological indications are only probabilities and all of them may or may not happen at all. So always take astrological advice in a positive and constructive way and do not get conditioned or discouraged.
Astrologers are also advised to realise the impact of what they say and how they say it.
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Astrological Indications ?
It is not possible here to discuss all indications in a birth chart which need attention so I will mention just a few important things:
1. The Ascendant and its Lord: The ascendant or Lagan as per a Vedic birth chart and its lord planet determine mainly the self-confidence, faith in own abilities, ability to win the battle of life and take the shocks of life in a philosophical manner. A strong ascendant and its lord help a person to rise again after facing troubles and not give up easily.
2. Moon sign and natal Moon: Remember the mind is very powerful and can override any physical situation. Haven?t you heard the wise saying, ?Man kehareyhaar, man kejeetayjeet?.?It depends on your mind, whether you will win or lose!? So the condition of these two astrological factors related to mind need attention.
3.Astrological Periods or Dashas: Give special attention to the following periods as per the VimshotriDasha System:
Periods of Rahu especially in education
Periods of Moon in Rahu or Ketu or vice versa
Periods of Saturn in Venus or vice versa
The Art of Living ?
The best way to learn the art of living is to increase your spiritual awareness. Unless you understand the purpose of life you cannot take life as it comes with the right spirit. The very first step in this direction is regular practice of Pranayaam (Breathing exercises) and Meditation.
Article by :Pawan Kumar
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