DELAY IN MARRIAGE – TULSI VIVAH
Marriage is the most important institution in the world. Those who remained bachelors are devoid of many responsibilities in their life. From religious point of view religious rituals could only fructify if they are performed with wife. Performing them alone has no significance in Hindu religion, because one cannot pay his debts if unmarried. For example the person who is not married cannot have a bliss of child, hence cannot be liberated from the Pitririn . There are many other debts which cannot be paid in the state of bachelorhood.
According to Shastras only those souls are liberated who have been given Mukhagni (First fire ignited after death to burn the corpse) by their sons or have donated their daughters by marriage.
Any ritual like Japam, Tapam, & charity, pilgrimages, and Pooja Path if performed without wife, is not liable to grant the complete results. Many times, at many places the reason of delayed marriage is that one is not able to find the suitable match for marriage. The boy does not like any girl. In ancient times, the head of the family or members of the family used to select the suitable bride or bridegroom. In today’s world due to the expansion of western culture in our country or due to the generation gap and high education, children like to select life partner on their own and get married without the permission of their parents. If the match is fixed, one more problem which is generally faced, that the marriage could not materialize due to one or other reason or girl and boy are separated after marriage.
Many families suffer this tension in today’s society. Have you ever thought, why this thing happens, why one face hurdles in auspicious works. It is because of their unfair karmas with the woman either in this birth or in the birth before. They either have torturde woman or they do not respect their wives, or hate them etc. They do crime in one way or the other to a woman.
As a result they have to face problems related to women in any form in their lives. If one has done crime with mother, is devoid of happiness from mother in this birth. If one is not just to his sister / daughter, one has to face problems from their side. If one does crime to his wife in this birth, he has to face marriage related problems in next birth. These problems could be analyzed by the native’s Kundali.
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